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Guide for matchmakers & dating coaches

Matchmaker or dating coach? Want more clients without showing your face?

You help people find and keep the right person. Here is how to help them find you first: short videos with one dating tip each, posted on YouTube Shorts, TikTok and Reels. No camera, no editor, no editing skills. This page gives you the prompt, 30 video ideas and a ready first script.

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We get it

You're a matchmaker / dating coach, not a video editor. You don't need to become one.

You can read a first date in five minutes and spot a red flag from a text message. But video probably felt like a different job: cameras, lights, timelines, cutting, captions, music. So it stayed on the "someday" list.

With jajavideo you write (or let AI write) what you want to say. That's it. The built-in director splits it into scenes, picks a visual for every sentence, adds a natural voice-over, music and animated captions. You don't need to be a good speaker or writer either. The prompt on this page writes the scripts from your expertise. You just check that the advice is right.

These videos share general information, not personal advice.

What you thought video needsWhat jajavideo needs
A camera and good lighting
Nothing. It's faceless
Hours in an editing app
One paste, a couple of minutes
Writing scripts from scratch
The prompt on this page
A voice you're happy with
300+ natural voices
A budget for an editor
5 free videos a day

Why video works for matchmakers & dating coaches

People hire a matchmaker they already trust. A 40-second video builds that.

Nobody books a dating coach from a bio. They book after hearing one piece of advice that sounds like it was written for them.

Did you know? 9 in 10 US teens use YouTube, and 61% use TikTok every day.

Source: Pew Research Center, 2025

Did you know? 78% of US YouTube viewers say YouTube has the most trusted creators for product recommendations.

Source: Google / Kantar, 2025

Did you know? 105 trials A review of 105 randomized trials found that adding video to teaching strongly improves learning.

Source: Noetel et al., Review of Educational Research, 2021

Trust before the first call

Someone who watched ten of your tips already feels they know how you think. The intro call becomes a conversation instead of a pitch.

You stand out in a crowded field

Thousands of coaches post generic "love yourself first" quotes. Specific, practical advice posted steadily puts you ahead of most of them.

Explain the invisible

Matchmaking is hard to picture. A short that shows how you think about compatibility makes the value concrete for someone who has never hired a matchmaker.

Reach people who aren't ready to ask

Most people won't tell a friend they're struggling. A short video lets them learn from you quietly, and remember your name when they are ready.

See it before you try it

The whole process in one short tutorial

  • Signing up with Google in about 10 seconds
  • Pasting one script, or many with AAA in Bulk
  • Asking Jaja to write a script for you
  • Choosing a language, voice and caption style
  • Downloading the finished vertical video

Step by step

From zero to a week of dating videos in one sitting

Copy the dating prompt below

Add your name, your city or market, and who your clients are. Your details go straight into the prompt.

Paste it into Claude, ChatGPT or Gemini

You get 10 scripts, each teaching one specific dating or matchmaking idea, each opening with a hook and ending with your name.

Check the advice like you'd check a client's profile

You're the expert. Fix anything that isn't how you'd say it, or that doesn't fit your approach. Five minutes.

Paste all 10 into jajavideo's Bulk tab

Sign up free, open Bulk, paste. The AAA lines split them into 10 separate videos.

Pick a voice, press Generate, then post or schedule

Each video is a vertical MP4 for Shorts, TikTok, Reels and Facebook. Post them at your own pace, or schedule them on the platforms so one goes live every few days while you work with clients.

The format

Plain text, a Title: line, AAA between scripts

No scenes, no visual directions. Just what should be said. This is exactly what you paste:

Paste into jajavideo → Bulk
Title: Dating tip: the first-date question that tells you more than any profile
Most people spend a first date listing facts: job, city, hobbies. Facts tell you very little about whether this person will still be interesting in six months. Try one question instead. Ask what they did last weekend that they'd happily do again. Then listen for whether they mention other people. Someone who describes a hike with a friend, a family lunch or a class they joined is showing you how they spend time with people. Someone who lists only solo activities isn't wrong, but you learn something. You're not judging, you're noticing. One good question beats an hour of small talk. Want help reading the signs? Search TrueNorth Matchmaking on Google.
AAA
Title: Dating tip: why "I'm bad at texting" is costing you matches
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AAA
Title:

Topic: hook. Never read aloud. Tells viewers and YouTube what the video is about.

Text

90–130 words of narration. One tip, one concrete detail, short spoken sentences.

Credit

Your name, last sentence. Read by the voice-over, so write sites as words: "yourbusiness dot com".

AAA

Alone on a line between scripts. Ten scripts, ten videos, one paste.

Copy, paste, done

The dating prompt: 10 expert scripts in one go

Fill in your details. The prompt updates as you type. Copy it into any AI chat and paste the answer straight into jajavideo.

Prompt for Claude · ChatGPT · Gemini
You are an expert short-form video scriptwriter and an experienced matchmaker and dating coach. Write 10 scripts for faceless YouTube Shorts, TikTok and Reels for a matchmaker or dating coach.

About me:
- Name or practice: [YOUR NAME OR PRACTICE]
- City or market: online, no specific city
- My ideal clients: single professionals in their 30s and 40s
- My focus: matchmaking and introductions
- Language of the scripts: English

Rules for every script:
1. Teach ONE specific, practical dating or matchmaking idea that a single person can understand and act on. No generic ads like "Want to find love? Call me".
2. The first sentence is the hook: a common dating mistake, a myth, or a real question clients ask. It must keep the viewer watching past the first 3 seconds.
3. 90 to 130 words of flowing spoken narration (about 30 to 50 seconds). Plain language, short sentences. No jargon. No scene directions, emojis, lists or headings.
4. Include one concrete detail: a number, a setting, a phrase people actually say, a real situation.
5. Keep it general education, not personal advice. No guarantees of finding a partner, no promises of results, no shaming of any gender or lifestyle. Respectful and inclusive.
6. End with this sentence: "Want help with your dating life? Search [YOUR NAME OR PRACTICE] on Google.". Write any website as words, for example "example dot com".
7. Each script covers a different topic. Mix mistakes, myths, client questions, quick how-tos, online dating, first dates and confidence.

Format (follow exactly):
- Start each script with one line: Title: [topic]: [hook]. The title is not read aloud.
- Then the narration as one paragraph.
- After each script, a line that contains only AAA.

Output only the 10 scripts in this format, nothing before or after. I will paste them straight into jajavideo.

Need the next batch? Reply in the same chat: "Write 10 more, completely different topics."

Where to paste it, and what happens next

  1. Copy the prompt

    Fill in your details above, then press Copy prompt.

  2. Paste it into an AI chat

    Open any AI chat in a new tab, paste the prompt and send it. You get 10 scripts back.

  3. Paste the answer into jajavideo

    Copy the AI's whole answer, open the Bulk tab in jajavideo and paste it. You get 10 finished videos.

    Open jajavideo →
Watch: prompt → AI chat → Bulk tab → 10 videos (70 seconds, with sound)

Made with this prompt

Three real dating videos, made on jajavideo

Each one is a single tip, a natural voice, a visual for every sentence and the credit at the end. Open a script to read exactly what was pasted.

Video 1 · The first-date question that tells you more

Read the script

Title: Dating tip: the first-date question that tells you more than any profileMost people spend a first date listing facts: job, city, hobbies. Facts tell you very little about whether this person will still be interesting in six months. Try one question instead. Ask what they did last weekend that they'd happily do again. Then listen for whether they mention other people. Someone who describes a hike with a friend, a family lunch or a class they joined is showing you how they spend time with people. Someone who lists only solo activities isn't wrong, but you learn something. You're not judging, you're noticing. One good question beats an hour of small talk. Want help reading the signs? Search TrueNorth Matchmaking on Google.

Video 2 · Why "I'm bad at texting" costs matches

Read the script

Title: Dating tip: why "I'm bad at texting" is costing you matchesYou match with someone, you like them, and then you write "hey" and wait. Nothing happens, and you tell yourself you're just bad at texting. Here's the thing: nobody is bad at texting. People are bad at giving the other person something to answer. A message that ends the conversation is "how was your day". A message that opens one is "your photo at that market, was that the one near the station". It's one detail, one question, and it shows you actually looked. Try it on your next three matches and see what changes. Want help with your messages? Search TrueNorth Matchmaking on Google.

Video 3 · The checklist that keeps you single

Read the script

Title: Dating myth: the checklist that keeps you singleClients often bring me a list: tall, funny, good job, loves dogs, wants children, must be close with their family. It's fine to know what you want. But a long checklist does something sneaky: it lets you reject people before you've met them, and it keeps you safe from the risk of actually trying. Here's a small experiment. Sort your list into two columns: what you need to feel respected, and what you'd simply prefer. Most people find the second column is much longer. Keep the first, loosen the second, and notice how many more people you're willing to meet. That's where the good ones usually are. Want help with your list? Search TrueNorth Matchmaking on Google.

Never run out

30 dating video ideas your clients actually search for

Each one is a full video. Paste any line into the prompt, or into Jaja inside jajavideo, and ask for a script.

Mistakes
  1. Opening with "hey" and waiting
  2. A profile with no photos of yourself smiling
  3. Listing what you don't want
  4. Texting for weeks before meeting
  5. Talking about an ex on the first date
  6. Only meeting people in one place
  7. Answering questions with one word
  8. Choosing a loud bar for a first date
  9. Hiding that you want a relationship
  10. Cancelling and rescheduling instead of saying no
Myths and client questions
  1. "Is there really someone for everyone?"
  2. "Should I play hard to get?"
  3. "Why do I keep attracting the wrong person?"
  4. "Is it too late for me at my age?"
  5. "Do matchmakers actually work?"
  6. "Should I wait for the spark?"
  7. "Why do people ghost?"
  8. "Is online dating only for casual things?"
  9. "How long should I wait before a first date?"
  10. "What does a dating coach actually do?"
Quick how-tos
  1. Write a first message people answer
  2. Choose a first-date place that helps conversation
  3. Ask one question that reveals values
  4. Take profile photos with a phone and a window
  5. Say what you're looking for in three lines
  6. End a date kindly when it isn't right
  7. Ask someone out without making it heavy
  8. Spot a red flag early without overthinking
  9. Recover after a date that went nowhere
  10. Build a simple weekly dating routine

Your dating instinct applies here too

What makes a dating Short get watched

Think of it like a first date. The first three seconds decide whether there is a second one.

The first 3 seconds are your opening line

Open with the mistake, the myth or the client question. If the first sentence doesn't earn attention, nothing after it is seen.

Title as Topic: hook

"Dating tip: why 'I'm bad at texting' is costing you matches" tells the viewer and the platform exactly who it's for.

One idea per video

Same rule as a good date: one clear conversation. Three tips in 40 seconds means none of them sticks.

Help first, credit last

No "Want to find love? Call me!" openers. The tip earns attention. Your name in the last line earns the follow-up search.

Stay general, stay kind

Share education, not personal advice. No shaming, no guarantees, no "men always" or "women never". Viewers remember how you made them feel.

More videos, more people who know you

You tell clients that good dating takes time. So does an audience. You don't have to post daily, but the more useful videos you put out, the more people learn your name. Make a batch in one sitting and schedule them.

Think bigger

More than marketing: new ways to earn with video

When a finished video costs you a couple of minutes, video stops being a cost and becomes something you can sell.

Add "a video every day" to your coaching packages

Your clients need visibility and most of them want video. Offer daily Shorts as an add-on: you write the tips with the prompt, jajavideo makes the videos, and you deliver them under the client's brand. Commercial use is included on every plan, and on Unlimited you can put your own logo on the videos.

Example: 5 clients × 20 videos a month = 100 videos
Your cost on Unlimited: $27 a month in total
Your price: whatever 20 videos a month is worth to your clients

A free mini-course as a lead magnet

Turn ten of your best tips into ten Shorts and send them as a welcome sequence. People who watch all ten are warm leads.

Video for dating-app profile help

Offer a short video review of a client's profile. It's more memorable than a written report and it shows your work in seconds.

Reach clients in their language

Dating advice travels well. Make versions in Spanish, Japanese or Arabic. jajavideo speaks 74 languages, so you can offer what most coaches can't.

Workshops that sell themselves

Send a prospect a short video explaining the top three things you'd change about their dating approach. It's more personal than a PDF and it takes a couple of minutes.

Try it now, no signup

Let Jaja write your first dating video

Jaja is jajavideo's script assistant. Tell it your name and your clients, and it writes your first dating script right here. Like it? Turn it into a finished video in one click.

You can ask Jaja for more scripts, other topics or other languages after you sign up. Free accounts get 5 watermark-free videos every day.

JajaScript assistant
Hi! I write Shorts scripts for matchmakers and dating coaches. What's your name or practice, and who are your clients? I'll write your first video.

Price

Cheaper than one hour of a freelance editor

Free

$0
  • 5 watermark-free videos a day (≈150 a month)
  • Unlimited after that, with a small credit
  • No card

Unlimited

$27/month
  • Unlimited videos, no watermark
  • Your own logo
  • Priority queue, Bulk mode

Unlimited + Long

$47/month
  • Everything in Unlimited
  • Landscape videos up to 4 minutes
  • Top queue priority

Paid plans are monthly PayPal subscriptions you can cancel any time. The free plan needs no credit card.

Never made a video before? Start here

Every question a first-timer asks, answered

You've never edited a video and never used a system like this. That's fine. Most people who use jajavideo hadn't either. Pick any question below. Can't find yours? Ask Jaja, our agent.

Getting started

I have never edited a video in my life. Can I really do this?

Yes. You never open an editing program, never cut anything and never touch a timeline. You paste text into a box, pick a voice, and press Generate. jajavideo does every video step for you: it splits your text into scenes, picks a picture or clip for every sentence, records the voice-over, adds music and puts animated captions on screen. If you can copy and paste, you can make a video.

What exactly do I need before I start?

Three things: an email or Google account to sign up, a few sentences about a dating or relationship topic (or the prompt on this page to write them), and a few minutes. No camera, microphone, software, design skills or credit card.

How do I sign up?

Go to jajavideo.com and press "Continue with Google". It takes about 10 seconds. You can also sign up with an email address. No card is asked for.

What's the very first thing I should do after I sign up?

Make one test video before anything else. Open the dashboard, stay on the Single tab, and paste this:

Title: First date tip: ask about the story, not the job
Most first dates sound like a job interview, and that's why they feel flat. Instead of asking what someone does for a living, ask what made them choose it, or what they'd do if money didn't matter. You'll get a story instead of a job title, and stories are what people remember. Try one question like that on your next date and watch the conversation change. Ready to meet someone properly matched? Search Example Matchmaking on Google.

Choose English and any voice, press Generate, and in a couple of minutes you'll see your first finished video. After that, everything else on this page will make sense.

How long until I have my first video?

Usually a couple of minutes per video. If many people are making videos at the same moment it can take a bit longer. You can close the tab: you'll get an email the moment it's ready.

Do I need to install anything?

No. Everything runs in your browser, on a computer or a phone.

Scripts: what the video says

What is a "script"?

Just the words the voice will say in the video. Nothing technical. For a 30–50 second video that's about 90–130 words, roughly one short paragraph.

I'm not a writer or a speaker. Who writes the scripts?

You don't have to. You have three easy options. One: copy the dating-coach prompt on this page into Claude, ChatGPT or Gemini, and it writes 10 scripts for you. Two: inside jajavideo, type one line like "a tip about texting too much before the first date" and press ✨ Write script. Three: ask Jaja, the script assistant, for ideas in plain words. Your only job is to read the result and make sure the advice is sensible and kind.

What's the "Title:" line for?

It names your video so you can find it later. It is never read aloud and never shown in the video. Use the pattern Topic: hook, for example Title: Dating myth: opposites always attract.

Do I write anything about the pictures or scenes?

No. Write only what should be said. jajavideo's built-in director reads your sentences and chooses a matching visual for each one by itself.

How do I make people contact me at the end?

Make the last sentence your credit, for example "Search Example Matchmaking on Google." The voice reads it out. If you mention a website, write it as words, "example dot com", so the voice says it correctly. Jaja can also add the ending for you if you tell it your business name or website.

Can I fix a word or a sentence the AI wrote?

Of course. It's just text. Change anything before you paste it into jajavideo. If you notice a problem after the video is made, edit the text and make it again.

What if I run out of ideas?

Use the 30 ideas on this page, write down the questions your clients ask you, or reply to the AI in the same chat: "Write 10 more, completely different tips." You can also paste one of your blog posts and ask for five scripts based on it.

Bulk: many videos in one paste

What is Bulk, in simple words?

Bulk lets you paste several scripts at once and get a separate video for each one. Instead of making ten videos one by one, you paste ten scripts in one go and come back to ten finished videos.

How does jajavideo know where one video ends and the next starts?

Put a line with only AAA between scripts. Each script starts with its own Title: line. Here is the smallest possible example, 3 scripts that become 3 videos:

Title: Dating tip: stop texting for weeks before meeting
Endless texting before a first date builds a picture of someone who doesn't exist. Chat enough to feel safe, then suggest a coffee or a walk within a week or so. You'll find out faster whether there's real chemistry, and you save yourself weeks of guessing. Ready to meet someone properly matched? Search Example Matchmaking on Google.
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Title: Dating myth: you'll just know instantly
A lot of people expect a lightning bolt on the first date, and when it doesn't come they write off someone kind and interesting. Attraction often grows over two or three meetings once nerves settle. Give a good second date a chance before you decide. Ready to meet someone properly matched? Search Example Matchmaking on Google.
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Title: Dating tip: ask about values before hobbies
Hobbies are fun, but they rarely tell you whether a relationship will work. Early on, ask how someone likes to spend a free Sunday, or what they'd never compromise on. Those answers show you how they live, not just what they enjoy. Ready to meet someone properly matched? Search Example Matchmaking on Google.

Real scripts should be longer (90–130 words), but that's the whole idea: Title, text, AAA, repeat.

Where do I paste them?

In the dashboard, click the Bulk tab (next to Single), paste everything into the big box, choose the language and voice, and press Generate. All videos use the same voice and caption style.

Do I have to write "AAA" myself?

No, if you use the prompt on this page. It already tells the AI to put AAA between scripts, so you copy the AI's answer and paste it as it is.

I forgot the AAA lines. What happens?

If each script starts with its own "Title:" line, jajavideo still splits them correctly. AAA is simply the safest way to be sure.

Can I mix languages in one Bulk paste?

It's best to paste one language at a time, so every video gets a voice that matches. Make the English batch, then the Spanish batch.

Where do I find all the videos afterwards?

On your Videos page. Each one appears as soon as it's ready, and you get an email when they're done. Download them any time within 30 days.

The video itself

Will my face or voice be in the video?

No. The videos are faceless: real images and short clips, a natural AI voice-over, music and captions. Nobody appears on camera, and you never record your voice. That also keeps your dating clients private.

Can I choose the voice and the captions?

Yes. Choose from 300+ natural voices in 74 languages, and from 5 caption styles: Classic, Karaoke, Word Pop, Box Highlight or Two-line.

What if I don't like how a video came out?

Press "Make it again — free". It's made again from the same script with fresh visuals, and it never counts against your free videos.

How long can a video be?

Shorts can run up to about 3 minutes of narration, but 30–60 seconds usually works best. The Unlimited + Long plan adds landscape YouTube videos up to 4 minutes.

What format is the video?

A vertical 1080×1920 MP4, the standard size for YouTube Shorts, TikTok, Instagram Reels and Facebook. Make it once, post it everywhere.

Will faceless videos make me look less professional?

Not when each video answers a real question your clients are quietly asking. People judge a short by whether it was worth their time. A calm, specific dating tip with your name at the end reads as expertise, and it keeps your clients' stories off camera.

Posting & scheduling

Do I have to post a video every day?

No. Post at the pace that suits you. The simple rule is: the more useful videos you put out, the more potential clients learn your name. Two or three a week is a fine start. Steady beats occasional bursts.

I don't have time to upload every day. What can I do?

Schedule them. Make a batch of videos in one sitting with Bulk, then use the scheduling tools that the platforms already give you for free, so one video goes live each day (or every other day) while you work.

  • YouTube: upload in YouTube Studio and choose "Schedule" instead of "Public", then pick the date and time.
  • Instagram and Facebook: Meta Business Suite lets you schedule Reels ahead of time.
  • TikTok: on the TikTok website you can set a future posting time when you upload.

One hour on Sunday can fill the whole week. Platform menus change from time to time, so look for the "Schedule" option when you upload.

Where should I post first?

Start with one platform you already use or where your clients are, often YouTube Shorts or Instagram. Once that's a habit, post the same videos on the others. They're already the right size.

What should I write in the description?

One or two sentences about the tip, your business name, and how to contact you. On YouTube, add a link to your website if your channel allows links.

Does jajavideo upload the videos for me?

No. You download each video and post it yourself, so you stay in control of your accounts.

Results

How soon will I get clients from this?

Nobody can promise that, and we won't. Like any marketing, video builds up over time. Give it a steady few months, look at which topics get watched, and make more like those.

How do I know what's working?

Each platform shows you views and how long people watched. Look for videos that keep people watching past the first few seconds, and repeat their topic and opening style.

My first videos got few views. Did I do something wrong?

Probably not. New accounts often start slowly while the platform learns who your videos are for. Keep posting at your own pace, make your first sentence stronger, and keep each video to one clear tip.

Do these videos help my practice grow?

They add visibility on YouTube, social platforms and your Google Business Profile, and give people a low-pressure way to hear how you think before they book. No video guarantees clients or results, so keep your claims honest and specific.

Clients & business

Can I make videos for my clients and charge for them?

Yes. Commercial use is included on every plan, so you can publish videos on your own accounts and offer short video as part of your coaching packages. Keep client stories anonymous and get permission before you mention anyone.

Can I put my own logo on the videos?

Yes, on the Unlimited plans. Every video is watermark-free, or carries your own logo if you want it.

Can I make videos in my clients' languages?

Yes, in 74 languages including right-to-left ones like Arabic, Persian and Urdu. Ask the prompt to write in that language, then pick a voice in the same language.

Free plan & price

Is it really free?

Yes. Every day you get 5 completely watermark-free videos, about 150 a month, with no card. After those 5, you can keep making videos with a small "Made with jajavideo" credit.

When do my 5 free videos reset?

Every day at 00:00 UTC.

Do failed videos or redos count?

No. Only finished videos count, and "Make it again" is always free.

What do the paid plans add?

Unlimited ($27/month): unlimited watermark-free videos, your own logo, priority in the queue. Unlimited + Long ($47/month): everything in Unlimited plus landscape videos up to 4 minutes. Both are monthly PayPal subscriptions you can cancel any time.

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